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Leading the Family Choir

Have you ever heard the expression, you could not carry a tune in a bucket.  Well, I am the guy that does not even have a bucket for that tune.  I was not blessed with a singing voice and that is why I have always had an appreciation for those who can sing.  Recently I had a chance to attend a choir concert at our local high school where my niece performed.  We were lucky enough to be in the audience as each grade had the chance to showcase what they had been working on this year.  We heard some talented groups perform some great songs. Don’t worry, I won’t sing them for you.  One of the things that stood Read more…


Why You Need To Give Up Some Control In Your Family

You can have control or you can have growth, but you can’t have both.-@CraigRoeschel Have you ever had an argument with yourself?  Where you are the only person in the room and there are two voices in your head battling it out.  This is what happened to me when I heard the quote from Craig. I love to have control.  I think it is because if something goes wrong I want to be the one to blame.  That way I don’t have to take fault in anyone else. This is what the argument was all about.  I didn’t even want to give up control of my thoughts on growth.   The good news about having an argument with yourself is that Read more…


Bad News, You Weren’t Born A Leader

Always lead with the bad news first.  So please sit down, I have something to tell you.  You were not born a leader. You were not born a good parent.  Did I crush your dreams? Well, I hope not because the good news is, nobody was.  Leaders are made not born.   If you were to take a sheet of paper and write down every good quality a leader possesses what would be on your list?  If your list is anything like mine I can pull from some of the great leaders I have had when I was younger, from my years working, and many of the organizations I have been a part of.  I can also pull from some Read more…


The Most Important Question a Parent Leader Can Ask

Being a parent is the purest form of leadership.  This applies to servant leadership as well. Servant leadership is when you look to serve the people you lead in any way possible.  This does not mean that you wait on them hand and foot. It means that you look to serve your people in ways to make them better. This is why the most important question you can ask as a parent leader is all about them and puts you in a position to serve.  This important question is “How can I help?”  These might be the four most important words we can use with those we love.  Our job a servant leaders in our family is to bet there Read more…


Parent Manager vs Leader

     One of my favorite authors is leadership expert John Maxwell.  One of the things he teaches that has always stuck with me is that everything rises and falls based off of leadership.  Behind every strong organization or team is a strong leader who is there driving and serving those members of the organization.  The family is the same way in the need for leadership.  Have you ever thought of your role in your family as being the leader of the family.  Some families have partnership leaders some have a sole leader but any strong organization needs someone who is guiding the group through the ups and downs they encounter.      There is an often debated skill of a manager Read more…