Recently I was reading an article that said that 90% of people lack natural leadership skills.  Does that mean we are lost as parent leaders? Only 10% of us were born to be good parent leaders.  I had to read this statistic twice to let it sink in. Because to me, it does not mean that 90% of us don’t have a chance.  It just means that 90% of us need to work on being good leaders. The dirty little secret is no matter who you are we all need to work on our leadership skills. Leadership is the most important skill that anyone can learn.  No matter where you are in life when you get intentional about your leadership Read more…

A perfect family is not one that does not have any issues they are working on or trying to get better.  It is a family that works with what they have and creates a culture where all involved feel loved.   I started this site thanks to banana splits.  Seems like a strange reason to start something around leadership and parenting but go with me on this.  I like dessert. In my mind what is the point of having a meal if it is not the reason to get through it to have dessert?     Think of what your favorite banana split would have.  How would you make it? Would you have vanilla ice cream or maybe you are someone Read more…